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Posted 2 years ago

I am bisexual and proud of it.

   

Posted 2 years ago

ditto :)

   

Posted 2 years ago

All my friends know, but I haven't found the courage to tell my family yet...

   

Posted 2 years ago

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.

Does that make sense?

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

   

Posted 2 years ago

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.

Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.
Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

I prefer women, but it's easier to be with men (easier to win them over, easier to be with cuz my family still doesnt know i'm bi). This actually poses a problem because my friends start to think I'm actually straight. Problem is I am much more insecure around women. Around men I'm confident, probably cuz "they mean less to me" (so to speak. I don't mean it as hard as that sounds but I don't know how else to put it).

   

Posted 2 years ago

I also proudly claim the bisexual label. A little unusual perhaps, I am equally emotionally and physically attracted to men or women. I did find my soul mate in the body of a male in this life and we've been married 18 years. However, I had and continue to have beautiful relationships with women when I find an emotional match.

   

Posted 2 years ago

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.
Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

I prefer women, but it's easier to be with men (easier to win them over, easier to be with cuz my family still doesnt know i'm bi). This actually poses a problem because my friends start to think I'm actually straight. Problem is I am much more insecure around women. Around men I'm confident, probably cuz "they mean less to me" (so to speak. I don't mean it as hard as that sounds but I don't know how else to put it).

Men are definitely much easier to flirt with and win over. They are also alot less inhibited in bed, but that's just my experience. = ) I agree that it might be b/c I honestly could less about having a deeper connection with them. It sounds cold, but its the truth, and considering most of the guys I have been with don't mind being a short term, physical thing, I don't feel bad about it as far as they go. As I get older though (32 now), and what I want in a long term relationship becomes more clear, I tend to try and steer away from becoming involved with men. I find they are often just a distraction of energy I could be using to prepare myself for something more meaningful, if that makes sense. It is quite a buzz sometimes to know I can still get their attention though. = )

And I also feel very insecure when it comes to women. I get all tongue tied and shy, and am not sure how to approach asking them out. Esp since most of the women I tend to be attracted to are also still attracted to men to some extent, which makes sense. Its hard to tell if they are as interested in women as I am. I've made the attempt a few times, asking women out who i wasn't quite sure what their orientation was, with mixed results. One awesome girl told me she was very flattered, but b/c of school and other committments, hardly had time for her family and friends, let alone dating. Others gave me their number, but never returned my calls. Have no idea of it was b/c of me or they just didn't know how to tell me when I asked them out, that they weren't interested in women.

   

Posted 2 years ago

laraz said,

I also proudly claim the bisexual label. A little unusual perhaps, I am equally emotionally and physically attracted to men or women. I did find my soul mate in the body of a male in this life and we've been married 18 years. However, I had and continue to have beautiful relationships with women when I find an emotional match.

Don't know if it is ususual in general, but I haven't met many women like you. I think it would be awesome to find both emotionally and physically attractive. I'd feel alot less guilty about how I've conducted some of my past relationships if I had that capacity. And that's awesome you found such a great guy. I am close to a lesbian couple, who have been together almost 10 yrs, but still consider themselves bi-sexual. They don't act on their attractions to men because they are committed to each other, but if they ever broke up (which i pray they never do) they'd be open to men again.

   

Posted 2 years ago

Great conversations. I am Bi as well.

   

Posted 2 years ago

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

I hear you...I think if i wasn't so afraid of been dis-horned by my father, I probably would be with a woman. such beautiful creature. Needless to say that i truly get Gina and her father in episode 6. Now I am on a life sentence without the possibility of parole...oops, I mean engaged to a great guy that my father adore.

   

Posted 2 years ago

coco06067 said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

I hear you...I think if i wasn't so afraid of been dis-horned by my father, I probably would be with a woman. such beautiful creature. Needless to say that i truly get Gina and her father in episode 6. Now I am on a life sentence without the possibility of parole...oops, I mean engaged to a great guy that my father adore.

LOL. Poor guy!

   

Posted 2 years ago

bgsmith83 said,

I am bisexual and proud of it.

me too.... married to my man for 25 years, and have a deep emotional/physical love connection and understanding with my woman for the past 8 years....

   

Posted 2 years ago

i agree ... i could just as easily see my self spending the rest of my life with a man or woman. i find them both equally attractive.but, on the other hand..i find that i could leave a man quicker and sometimes care less about what he thinks..but thats just me

   

Posted 2 years ago

the emotional connection is so much more intimate and intense with my g/f than with my husband. I wonder if part of that is due to the length of time we have been together, or the fact that even tho', I talk to her everyday, I don't see her everyday. And the fact that my husband and I have been together so long that we know each others ways so well. Maybeit is that we take one another for granted...

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.
Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

I prefer women, but it's easier to be with men (easier to win them over, easier to be with cuz my family still doesnt know i'm bi). This actually poses a problem because my friends start to think I'm actually straight. Problem is I am much more insecure around women. Around men I'm confident, probably cuz "they mean less to me" (so to speak. I don't mean it as hard as that sounds but I don't know how else to put it).

Men are definitely much easier to flirt with and win over. They are also alot less inhibited in bed, but that's just my experience. = ) I agree that it might be b/c I honestly could less about having a deeper connection with them. It sounds cold, but its the truth, and considering most of the guys I have been with don't mind being a short term, physical thing, I don't feel bad about it as far as they go. As I get older though (32 now), and what I want in a long term relationship becomes more clear, I tend to try and steer away from becoming involved with men. I find they are often just a distraction of energy I could be using to prepare myself for something more meaningful, if that makes sense. It is quite a buzz sometimes to know I can still get their attention though. = )
And I also feel very insecure when it comes to women. I get all tongue tied and shy, and am not sure how to approach asking them out. Esp since most of the women I tend to be attracted to are also still attracted to men to some extent, which makes sense. Its hard to tell if they are as interested in women as I am. I've made the attempt a few times, asking women out who i wasn't quite sure what their orientation was, with mixed results. One awesome girl told me she was very flattered, but b/c of school and other committments, hardly had time for her family and friends, let alone dating. Others gave me their number, but never returned my calls. Have no idea of it was b/c of me or they just didn't know how to tell me when I asked them out, that they weren't interested in women.

if they gave you their phone number then they are interested. they just may be scared to try something different. btw i label myself str8... but curious

   

Posted 2 years ago

BABEPHAT01 said,

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.
Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

I prefer women, but it's easier to be with men (easier to win them over, easier to be with cuz my family still doesnt know i'm bi). This actually poses a problem because my friends start to think I'm actually straight. Problem is I am much more insecure around women. Around men I'm confident, probably cuz "they mean less to me" (so to speak. I don't mean it as hard as that sounds but I don't know how else to put it).

Men are definitely much easier to flirt with and win over. They are also alot less inhibited in bed, but that's just my experience. = ) I agree that it might be b/c I honestly could less about having a deeper connection with them. It sounds cold, but its the truth, and considering most of the guys I have been with don't mind being a short term, physical thing, I don't feel bad about it as far as they go. As I get older though (32 now), and what I want in a long term relationship becomes more clear, I tend to try and steer away from becoming involved with men. I find they are often just a distraction of energy I could be using to prepare myself for something more meaningful, if that makes sense. It is quite a buzz sometimes to know I can still get their attention though. = )
And I also feel very insecure when it comes to women. I get all tongue tied and shy, and am not sure how to approach asking them out. Esp since most of the women I tend to be attracted to are also still attracted to men to some extent, which makes sense. Its hard to tell if they are as interested in women as I am. I've made the attempt a few times, asking women out who i wasn't quite sure what their orientation was, with mixed results. One awesome girl told me she was very flattered, but b/c of school and other committments, hardly had time for her family and friends, let alone dating. Others gave me their number, but never returned my calls. Have no idea of it was b/c of me or they just didn't know how to tell me when I asked them out, that they weren't interested in women.

if they gave you their phone number then they are interested. they just may be scared to try something different. btw i label myself str8... but curious

I think some women just find it easier in the moment to accept, and then not call back later. For whatever reason, they feel weird about it. But...i'll never know.

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes a lot of sense 2 a woman who feels the same way.....

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Ditto to that.

   

Posted 2 years ago

well,
I am a young 18 year old bisexual and stil have lots to learn. i am very open with my friends but no so much the family. i come from a catholic family, i guess thats why is so hard.....i was wondering what advic would you give me!

   

Posted 2 years ago

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Posted 2 years ago

210Nyomie said,

well,
I am a young 18 year old bisexual and stil have lots to learn. i am very open with my friends but no so much the family. i come from a catholic family, i guess thats why is so hard.....i was wondering what advic would you give me!

Hi (: i'm 21 now, but i came out to my family when i was 17.. i was soo scared! What i did was slowly bring up topics about people being gay and their rights.. or something along the topic (you can even use venice as a topic starter!) See how your parents feel about the situation.. then after u see their views it should be a little easier to tell them. My mom still jokes with me every so often.. but still reminds me how she is happy that i didn't hide it from her..

she'd rather me be myself around people especially her.. than hide myself, and just "play along"

It is best in the long run.. just make sure you are ready to take any consequences that may come along with telling them!

   

Posted 2 years ago

kkaulitz103 said,

210Nyomie said,

well,
I am a young 18 year old bisexual and stil have lots to learn. i am very open with my friends but no so much the family. i come from a catholic family, i guess thats why is so hard.....i was wondering what advic would you give me!

Hi (: i'm 21 now, but i came out to my family when i was 17.. i was soo scared! What i did was slowly bring up topics about people being gay and their rights.. or something along the topic (you can even use venice as a topic starter!) See how your parents feel about the situation.. then after u see their views it should be a little easier to tell them. My mom still jokes with me every so often.. but still reminds me how she is happy that i didn't hide it from her..
she'd rather me be myself around people especially her.. than hide myself, and just "play along"
It is best in the long run.. just make sure you are ready to take any consequences that may come along with telling them!

hey :) well thanks and i do try to do the same, but it seems when i do the walk away....so im guessing things really wont change. But i think the worst part would be out of this is if i find some one that i want to be with and want them to meet her. I know people say parents will always love you.... but i not so shore about my family:( but no one will keep me from real love when i find it.
thanks for the help!

   

Posted 2 years ago

i have been involved with Bi-sexual women for most my adult life. I find all of your comments to be truth in how bi-sexual women do relate in trying to firgure out how to go about making that step towards dating another woman.

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Yes it does

   

Posted 2 years ago

activitygrrl said,

ezzie said,

activitygrrl said,

I'm bi-Sexual. The little b, big S is intentional. I am overwhelmingly attracted to women, both physically and emotionlly. Occasionally I find a guy I can have physical fun with, but have no interest in a long term relationship with a man. I could never be faithful, physically or emotionally, to him.
Does that make sense?

Makes total sense to me!! It's kinda the same for me I think.

Cool beans. So you overwhelmingly prefer women to men? I have alot of friends who are the exact opposite; capable of being in a long term, emotional, physical relationship with a man, but only attracted to women in the short term, physical/sexual way.
Out of habit, and for conveniece of conversation, I still refer to myself as lesbian most of the time. My sexuality seems to confuse alot of people.

I'm the same. I only recently came to terms wth my sexuality, but I find women much more attractive! Its realy hard to explain that to people! When you do the only response I get is "so your a lesbian?" Its frustrating that people can't understand the difference! Only a few of my friends know at this point too which makes life a little more complicated!

   

Posted 2 years ago

love is love, gender are mostly spare parts...i guess some cant see that

   

Posted 2 years ago

MagFost said,

the emotional connection is so much more intimate and intense with my g/f than with my husband. I wonder if part of that is due to the length of time we have been together, or the fact that even tho', I talk to her everyday, I don't see her everyday. And the fact that my husband and I have been together so long that we know each others ways so well. Maybeit is that we take one another for granted...

seems to me like you have the best of both worlds. I've been married 20 yrs and always missed the connection with a girl. Now I think that I found it but can't deal with the situation...

   

Posted 2 years ago

Can anyone give me some advice. I have such deep feelings for a friend. I'm still trying to figure out if I'm bi or a lesbian. I think Bi b/c I'm still attracted to men. anyway, my friend and I have a connection that I've never had with another human being. the problem is she is in a relationship with a man for over 13 years now. I honestly don't think she'll ever leave her man. we haven't even spoken about that happen. I want to let go b/c it hurts to much knowing that I can't be with her. How can I resolve these feelings and still be her friend and be there for her.