- VComm Lesbians Over 40
- what happen when you first kissed a girl/woman?
She was on my softball team we were probably 15 at the time and I kissed her
Then she ran away from me....lol You think it would have given me a complex but it didm't.
I and my best friend used to go to her room after school and make out laying on the bed with our cloths on and take turns being on top lol. I know I would get very excited and wanted more but really didn't know how to go further was 13,14 or 15
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The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.
Honestly, I am trying to remember. LOL I think we had been drinking. Or maybe it was experimentation coupled with love. Which came first? I think that was the real love destined not to be fully realized. Mostly I knew it was both different than with a guy and right for me. I had realized I was gay (or at least bi) between the two kisses.
I was 35 married 16 years and had 2 sons. I then chose my female lover over my marriage. I have been with her for 11 years now and can say I am happy and can be my self.My sons now 16 and 23 seem to be ok with my relationship my mother is a different story as for my ex husband I do not tthink he will ever forgive me.
I love what people are willing to share here!
I was 18, a freshman in college, and madly in love. We talked about THE KISS for a good 5 hours before we actually did it. It was a "should we" vs "shouldn't we" exchange. We ended up staying together for 3 years after that night. It was sweet and gentle and something I still treasure.
I was a freshman in college. She was a junior. We spent hours playing card games, bacgammon, or any other game that kept us in the same room. We would subtly touch. I thinking that it was just me that was excited by the minor touches. One night we argued over something I don't even remember. I turned to her and asked, "what do you want from me?" She grabbed me, pushed me against a wall and kissed me. It was amazing. I'll never forget her and cherish the many memories before and after that kiss.
It was back in 2000, which would mean I was 29. I was married and had two dogs. LOL! I was "curious" and met another married woman (by online). I was so shy and she was too. Well - we kissed and I knew I was hooked!!!! LOLOLOL!
quietstorm said,
The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.I like them older too I When I was in my mid 20 I thought that women in their 30 was the most exciting people ever and then in my 30 it was women in their 40.
taannaqa68 said,
quietstorm said,That's the way to win our hearts!!The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.
I like them older too I When I was in my mid 20 I thought that women in their 30 was the most exciting people ever and then in my 30 it was women in their 40.
wow, that's a lot of lucky 15 and 16 years olds! I was 22, she was my first roommate after college, we met through a roommate service looking for apartments in Boston. I guess I should congratulate them on their matchmaking skills! Was a total disaster by a couple months later. Now, the next girl I kissed was sweet but ended up bearing the brunt of coming after the first girl's crazy. Thus beginning another cycle of dyke dramas I guess.
shallotpeel said,
taannaqa68 said,we like what we like *smile* I was always surrounded by older people so was often more mature than people my own age... I guess being attracted to older women was just natural.quietstorm said,
The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.
I like them older too I When I was in my mid 20 I thought that women in their 30 was the most exciting people ever and then in my 30 it was women in their 40.
That's the way to win our hearts!!
taannaqa68 said,
quietstorm said,It was my professor at college. We just connected from the beginning.Our eyes, always our eyes. One night, we attended a concert together. When she dropped me off , I turned to hug her and she gently pulled me to her and kissed me so slowly and passionately. OMG I was in another place and time.I still am.The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.
I like them older too I When I was in my mid 20 I thought that women in their 30 was the most exciting people ever and then in my 30 it was women in their 40.
madonall said,
taannaqa68 said,those older ones get you everytime. I am NOT complaining at all mind you. *smile* it does have a tendency to take you another time and placequietstorm said,
The first time I kissed a girl I was around 15 or 16 and in that kiss I knew I was home.... if that makes sense. I felt more comfortable than I had ever felt before. I wanted that kiss to never end... the woman was in her 40s *smile*... always liked them older. Sufficed to say I kept kissing girls from then on.
I like them older too I When I was in my mid 20 I thought that women in their 30 was the most exciting people ever and then in my 30 it was women in their 40.
It was my professor at college. We just connected from the beginning.Our eyes, always our eyes. One night, we attended a concert together. When she dropped me off , I turned to hug her and she gently pulled me to her and kissed me so slowly and passionately. OMG I was in another place and time.I still am.
I was 15 years old when I first kissed a women aged 38. I didn't fancy her in that way nor did I want to kiss her. I was on my high school basketball team and we would practice after school M-Th and play games on Fridays. I decided to skip practice one day because this women who I thought was very nice to me wanted to take me out shopping for a new pair of sneakers. Afterwards she took by her place and that is when she forced a kissed, I learned at a very young age that nothing is free and everything comes with a price. I didn't see her again after that. I had known I was gay before that bad experience, so I can truely say that my very first desirable kiss was when I was 17 years old and we ended up making love. How sweet it was.
I was 15 and she was 18, I will never forget how soft her lips were, how I tingled with that first kiss, how to this day I can still remember the excitement I got from that kiss. After 33 years I am sure I would get sweaty palms if she entered the room,lol.
They say you never forget your first love, that is so true in my case, and if my wife reads this, I am dead meat,lmao.
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Unlike these sweet stories, mine was a disaster. I was 28 and had a friend from way back in junior high who was a lesbian. She had been crushed out on me for at least a decade, but I always declined. Finally I realized I had to check out women, and decided to take her up on her offer. It was earth shattering. I knew I was "home." I knew I'd never been so turned on in my life. It blew my mind, and I immediately knew I was gay.
I called her the next day, and no answer. Knocked on her door and no answer. For a year, she refused to speak to me. Talk about devastating. And crazy. Finally, she apologized, but our friendship was never the same. We don't even speak anymore.
Unlike these sweet stories, mine was a disaster. I was 28 and had a friend from way back in junior high who was a lesbian. She had been crushed out on me for at least a decade, but I always declined. Finally I realized I had to check out women, and decided to take her up on her offer. It was earth shattering. I knew I was
Did you ever find out why she had that reaction? It doesn't seem to make sense, ya know? But, at least you knew yourself then!
LilTan said,
hmm..I remember her lips being so soft..and I was scared to death...lol but I also liked it...and continue to do 2o+ years later...
a lifetime of precious memories. Love my husband very much (still do) but have no regrets about being with my lady. Slow, soft kisses, heart-thumping sex!!!!!!!!Who could ask for more?